Disrespect

What does it mean to be disrespectful? Is it automatic? Does age apply? First, it is actions. I don't believe in universal everyone deserves respect. It is earned in part and also, "treat others how you want to be treated." If a person starts off rude, that is one thing. However, I find it usually has to do with vibes and actions. Disrespect can be verbal, non-verbal, or even plain body language. A frown, rolling of eyes, or crossed arms can be seen as hostile. I had a manager confront me and state, "I was being rude!" My response was clear and direct, I am not rude. I only respond how I am matching energy for energy. You come in with a superior complex is how you are being rude, but I did not say this phrase. I said my crossed arms has nothing to do with actively listening and I reiterated what he had just said. And responded, we been here long enough so hearing empty promises means nothing, action speaks louder than words. Instead of him having this conversation with me in private, he did in front of other staff members and my words rang true. His response was anger and embarrassment, while clashing with me. He answered, "Not everyone lasts. Some quit, get fired, or are promoted!" while staring at me. Little did he know, threats don't phase me and I had a second job so I was not dependent on working there. He was transferred and ran two clubs, but the company re-branded and he was fired. Not I, so in that front- I was victorious. Also knowing the CEO, his bosses, being employee of the month, highest sales employee, and left with the ability to return. This made me the bigger person and proved my point, I wasn't rude and didn't judge a book by its' cover, but was cautious. I bring all this up to say, honor thy mother and father are good ideas, but not always practical. Some parents lost this right. Each story is unique. My brother made the mistake of dictating what my mother should do in her own home. This was rude, point blank disrespect, and down-right inappropriate. This is her home that she paid for and you are a guest in said home. He crossed the line and there are consequences. This is the biggest issue with being disrespectful; are you able and willing to accept the consequences.