Perspective. Community. Identity.
All these things are automatically when you are born. It can be your sex when born. The dicatomy of blue or pink. Regardless of middle sex or people who do not agree with their sexuality identity. The same can be said when picking your sexual orientation. "Everyone is born straight," or this is the default into a person decides to come out. To me, in my opinion, this is limited thinking but a fact of life. When a person exaomines these things and situations, it hopefully can change your perspective. This is the benefit of living and reevaluating things.